If you write me to tell me that I need to write you in order for you to communicate with me, then I will likely not write you. If you expect me to try to be invested in you when you act like a scammer, then this will not work out. Also, if you send me an email? telling me that you would write me an email later, then I will likely not reply. Simply put, I am too old to play email games. Make your initial email message at least a couple of sufficient paragraphs if you want a chance that I will reply.