If I assume that you might be a scammer, I will terminate my relationship with you. I live below the poverty line, and therefore will not have money to waste on your get rich quick scheme. I am also not going to save your relative because only my money can save them. I am not going to pay for a trip so you can come and visit me. If I suspect you to be a scammer, I will cut ties with you, and will not reply to further communications.